You've been looking for love in all the wrong places...
In relationships.
In accomplishments.
In money, sex, or substances.
But the love you need most is from YOU.
This Course is for You If...
You’ve achieved so much, but deep down still don’t feel “good enough.”
You end up in relationships with people who can’t love you the way you deserve.
You’re tired of doubting or sabotaging yourself and are ready to feel confident in your own skin.
You wish things would change—but you don’t know how.
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I've Been Where You Are...
I’m Blair Nicole—a former therapist, PhD candidate in psychology, and a former overachiever who spent years feeling insecure in myself and in relationships.
No matter how much I accomplished, I never really felt good enough. I chased unavailable people, self-sabotaged, and held myself to impossible standards.
I’ve spent over 7 years—and more than $100,000—on therapy, training, and research trying to understand why I kept doing this, even when I knew better. The truth? I was always good enough. These patterns were just survival patterns I learned along the way.
Everything changed when I discovered the power of self-compassion. Instead of trying to “fix” myself, I started learning how to love and trust myself — and it transformed everything: my relationships, my confidence, and my peace of mind.
Now I help other women create the love they’ve been seeking by using self-compassion and neuroscience to rewire the brain for lasting self-love.
The Transformation You'll Walk Away With:
From self-criticism and shame to self-love and acceptance.
Let go of the need to prove, perform, or seek constant approval. Learn how to release shame and self-criticism. Finally feel good enough, just as you are.
From chasing love to creating healthy, secure connections.
Stop feeling insecure in relationships, or chasing unavailable people. Break free from people-pleasing and over-giving. Attract relationships that are safe, supportive, and real.
From self-doubt and confusion to clarity and confidence.
Release patterns of self-sabotage. Build self-trust and acceptance, so you stop doubting yourself. Feel free to be your authentic self — no more hiding or holding back.
Not Another Surface-Level Fix:
Most self-love advice stops at affirmations or mindset hacks. This program is different. It’s built on a proven formula that blends science, personal experience, and clinical training to rewire the patterns keeping you stuck.
I’ll walk you through exactly how to do it. You’ll get:
30
Audio trainings.
Over 5 hours of content.
On Demand
Lifetime access, including future updates
Access anytime, anywhere
6
Guided meditations
+ 1 Bonus self-love meditation
Here's How My Work is Impacting Other Women...❤️
Frequently Asked Questions
If you’re motivated to understand why you keep getting stuck in painful patterns and emotions—and you’re willing to practice self-compassion and take small, consistent steps—then yes, this program is for you.
You don’t need to be perfect. Just curious, honest with yourself, and willing to reflect.
However, if you’re in a mental health crisis, dealing with active addiction, in an abusive relationship, or experiencing suicidal thoughts, this program isn’t the right fit right now. Please contact a licensed therapist or local crisis support. In the U.S., dial 988 for the Suicide & Crisis Lifeline—you deserve that level of care.
I trust you know what you need, and I support you in choosing what’s right for you.
Yes. At checkout you can choose to finance your purchase with Klarna and spread the cost over time. Select the option that works best for you during payment.
No, this program does not include 1:1 coaching or live coaching. All of the course materials will be available digitally, and you can go at your own pace.
You can go at a pace that feels comfortable to you! It was designed to be flexible and fit in all schedules.
Each training + meditation is about 5-15 minutes long.
Not at all! You don’t need experience with therapy, mindfulness, or self-compassion—just a willingness to do the work.
No, I don’t guarantee results—because transformation is in your hands. I can provide the tools, guidance, and support, but you have to do the work. If you show up consistently and apply what you learn, change is absolutely possible. I’m proof of that 🙂
Due to the digital nature of this program, I do not offer refunds.
You can view the program terms and conditions HERE before enrolling.
This program was designed with women in mind, however, this program is built upon research and scientific principles that work for everyone!
The love and acceptance you’ve been chasing starts here—with you.
Healing starts when you stop trying to be enough—and start seeing that you already are.